What should i do with my kids? Answers URGENT?
What should i do with my kids? Answers URGENT?
Hi. My sister decided to take my 5 kids and her 2 year old camping over the weekend and they came back today. My kids are 4, 6, 10, 11 and 13 (ALL GIRLS BTW.) The 11 and 13 year old went through puberty i’ll tell you why thats important later. Here’s what my sister told me about this “adventure”, well lets start from the begining, They were packing up for 1 weeks trip. They filled up 2 cars. As soon as we got up there Nicole (11), Jaymee (10) and Britney (13) went to the bathroom and complained about how dirty it was and was recording on the phone saying “the camp store is cleaner than those bathrooms”. Then they were talking in hillbilly voices (my sister asked them to stop but they didnt and thought it was hilarious) basically the whole time. Then she took them to the park and they were argueing over the teet or tot and her daughter got a splinter and it strated pouring rain it was horrible. Then Nicole wanted to sleep by Britney tonight (they stay up and talk and giggle so NO I didnt want them being grouchy so i told my sister no). Nicole had the biggest fit ever and cried and said “your not the boss of me” and “im not eating ” and “my mom made me come on this trip i didnt want to i hate you” (she had the option btw) and she called me and asked to be picked up (I refused to drive because the campsite was 2 1/2 hours away and it was 7pm). So then they ate dinner and they went to the creek now my sisters daughter was scared to walk in the water and Jaymee was holding her and asked help from Nicole and Britney but they just left them and went up more in the creek, (how inconsiderate). Then they went to roast marshmellows and burnt everyone of them ON PURPOSE so it was in the fire (and laughed and wasted 5$ worth of marshmellows). So they went into the camper and there bed was being help up by 2 steel rods and Nicole and Britney jumped ON PURPOSE (they know not too) and one cracked (the camper was 650$). Then we went to bed from 9pm-12:30am they were up ALL NIGHT (I sent sleeping pills with them and my sister gave it to them so i dont know why they were up) shaking the camper, bouncing up and down, making fart noises, whispering, laughing, getting in and out of the camper being OBNOXIOUS. Then at 4:30am Nicole was yelling “lets gather around the campfire and sing our campfire song” in a hillbilly voice and woke my sisters daughter up. It was also pitch blackness in the tent. So the next day my sister said they fell asleep around 5:30am and woke em right back up at 6am and ate breakfast and went golfing (mini golfing) and she wasted the 10$ on my kids (anyone above 2 is 10$) cuz they were being smarta$$es and using their hands (video recording it) and going on seperate courses cuz they didnt wanna wait for the little kids. They said my sister in a hillbilly voice “wasnt that a great game of golf arnt we the best golfers” Then they went past a sign that said have a beary good day and theyre like “aunt nicky r u having a beary good day” and saying beary after EVERYTHING they said. We told them to pick up the ground before we left they threw everything in the fire and video recorded it (That made my sister furious and they were being sarcastic with it). So my sister told them to go to the car. They are the most disgustingest people ever. They didnt bring deodarent ON PURPOSE and lifted their arms up (they were sitting there for 45 minutes and doors wer shut) Her windows were foggy and she had to air out the car she made them leave all the doors open and sprayed them with febreeze for 10 minutes. Then Nicole lifted her arms up again while we they were driving I yelled at her. Nicole and Britney thought it would be fun to teach the younger ones about knocking over port a potty’s and chasing golf carts and back of trailers and VIDEO RECORD IT. (I saw the videos on Nicole’s computer). They went up on Monday night and just came back now around 10:30pm. My sister said they were also video recording the bathrooms and not sharing the tenis ball rackets with the little kids and teasing them and making fun of camping ALL TOGETHER. Theyre like “when ya go campin ya talk like this). My sister said DONT LET THEM SLEEP TONIGHT. She is NEVER taking my kids again EVER. When I was referring to the little kids i was reffering to my 4 year old and my sisters daughter. My 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old daughers ARE THE PROBLEM. I dont know what I should do? What do you think? The 11 and 13 year old share a room. Also in 2 weeks my sister is driving my 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old to the Britney Spears concert thats 5 1/2 hours away (IN ANOTHER STATE). The tickets were already purchased (NO REFUND) and 350$ PER seat. What should i do to EACH of them? They also made my mother buy these t-shirts they designed for the concert 67$ EACH and buy them 40$ black shorts EACH and bought Brit and Nicole 1
Have you ever disciplined your children? I’m being serious here. It sounds like they have never been disciplined in their lives. If you can afford it, separate them from each other when they sleep at night. It sounds like they believe in ‘strength in the pack.’ Make them do house chores, even if they complain the entire time. Give them time outs. Take away privileges (TV, computer, possible cell phones, etc…).
YOU RUN THE HOUSE! YOU ARE THE ADULT! It seriously sounds like you have let your kids rule your life. You need to remind them that YOU are their mother and THEY can’t rule you in your own house.
DO NOT EVER HIT A CHILD! This gives off the wrong message. Use strong words and scream if you have to. Lock them in a room for an hour or two, just so they understood what they did was wrong. Your children NEED to get a sense of what is right and what is wrong. If they never have a guilty conscious about anything, it will have serious consequences when they’re off on their own
you might try some serious discipline . ground them until the spears concert and teach them a lesson. Stop spoiling them and instruct your mom to do likewise. They obviously have no respect for you, your sister or your mother. god help you in a couple more years if you don’t start getting control of them.
Wow, your kids are brats. Especially the two older ones, they are old enough how to act
and behave, and if I was you I would not let
them go to the concert. They definitely don’t deserve it, and you could probably sell the tickets somewhere of your worried about the money. If you dont do that then punish them in some other way, like grounding and taking away all electronics. Good luck
Takes everything they own away from them for at least a week, tell them how disappointed you are in them and hey let’s face it, summer vacation is here, I think they are on dish duty, lawn duty, and laundry duty for the next month, sorry they don’t have any time to be with friends, if it were still legal i would say take a belt to their bums,
I guess when they are done cleaning your home they can go to your sisters, 1 or 2 at a time and be put to work there as well( don’t send them all at once they sound like a handful) also let them read some of the answers you get here, how disrespectful, you have a lot of courage to come on here and ask for help
good for you
Good Luck
sell the concert tickets and the tee shirts on stubhub.com or craigslist. They DO NOT deserve to go to that concert, nor do i think your sister will keep them in the car for 5 and a half hours after what they pulled. they think that when you’re not around they can get away with murder, so don’t let them. do whatever you can to sell those concert tickets.
Wow you got your hands full. 4 female brats. The worse. You need nanny 911 I guess.
The only thing u need is a GUY on the trip….