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Biological mother issue, PLEASE HELP!?

When I was 5 months old I was placed up for adoption by my mother. Shortly after that I was adopted by my parents, who sadly both died when I was 11 in a drunk driving accident. I was brought up mainly in Nebraska on my moms thriving farm and frequented England and South Africa because my parents were both doctors.Fast forward 4 1/2 yrs, im 16 and currently living in London with me and my friends in our dorm room.I get a knock on the door from a PI that tells me that my bio mom is in Kansas and requested to meet, so because I was traveling to Topeka to pick up my new car anyway I decided to stop by for a visit.When I got there, everything seemed okay but eventually it turned bad when my bio mom found the receipt for my 2007 mustang and the accessories I added to it, and also found out how much I inherited from my parents, who left me a fair bit of money from the businesses they and my family started. So now not only are they implying that im selfish for spending so much on a car and not lending them any money to pay off bills but my bio sister, aunt, and mom are constantly calling and harassing me about not only moving to their beloved trailer but not letting me see a dime of my money until im 18! Also, their constantly harassing my GF and saying that shes using my for my money and precede to call her every name in the book on Myspace and now im constantly receiving papers saying that I must go to Kansas for visitation and a DNA test to! So naturally,when the days come to where im scheduled to go to Kansas I run off, and its now got to the point where my bio sister and aunt are now searching all of London for me as we speak! What should I do? Should I fly back to Nebraska and hide out on my farm, or should I remain hidden under my GF’S bed?
Also, I should mention that im a jew and their scientologist and my bio family is heavily involved in the sea org, and have vowed to raise me the “right way”, which is ironic seeing as my GF is involve in anti-scientologist protests! My bio fam met my GF the last time I was traveling from Nebraska to LA to take her to a convention and I decided to stop by for a friendly visit, needless to say that things got intresting… Well anyway, my bio dad lives in Kansas as well and my greedy bio family constantly asks me about how much money I’ve made from my 50,000 ac farm and have vowed to make my bio dad sue for me, and in return share custody, can they do this? Also, can they extort money from my account, and control my farm and my parents businesses that I inherited?
I should not that the courts granted her visitation somewhat because of the fact that my grandmother is my only surviving relative and is about to die =( and she is my guardian. But, the stipulation is that she must prove to the court apon thieir ruling that we have formed a relatopnship, so in a way its my choice. With amount of estate I inherited, their sure as hell not taking no for an answer, even going as far as to now be looking for me so they can “willingly” take my home with them, and now my friends are trying to hide my car somewhere they wont find it!


4 Responses to “Biological mother issue, PLEASE HELP!?”

  1. Do I know you? says:

    yes

  2. epkinvegas says:

    First – where is your guardian and / or the trustee of your estate? You bio-mom gave up all rights to you and can not drag you through this. Your guardian should be looking out for you legally. Get legal help and get this women to leave you alone.

  3. me2huh says:

    This sounds like a novel, I can’t believe at 16 you would be allowed to travel all over the world alone, I’m sure when your adoptive parents died they had designated someone to be a guardian over you till you were of age and someone to control the assets and money of their estate in the event of a death. I say you are not obligated to give anybody anything and I wouldn’t do it under any circumstances because when the money, land etc is gone when you give it to someone else what are you going to live on? At 16 without workable skills or college degree you would be left out in the street do you think the bio family would want you then? Good luck to ya

  4. huckleberry says:

    No, they can’t. They signed those adoption papers and you let them know that they did. Your parents ( not your bio ones) gave YOU that farm. If they continue to harass you tell them you will get a restraining order. Tell them how you feel, and set down your terms. You don’t have to lend them money, because its not like they gave you money. You can do what you want with your money. Oh and ask them if they would still want custody of you if you didn’t have the money and the estate.

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