Is falling asleep on a car ride with a guy be called sleeping with a guy or no.?
Okay so me and this ex boyfriend and i were sitting in the back of a van heading back from oklahoma. He was holding me in his arms and I happen to fall asleep and so did he. The thing that has been bugging me if that is called sleeping with a guy, I have friends that say that it doesnt count but i really dont know. Because we were sleeping and we were laying on the bench and he had his arms around me and we were asleep for like 4 or 5 house cause we were pretty tired from a long week at camp. So can you help me determine is that called sleeping with a guy or not. Because if so then i can say i have slept with a guy and if its not considered then i can tell everyone that i have not slept with a guy. I really need help to figure this one out. Thanks 
i don’t think it really counts
You definitely did not! You took the phrase “sleeping with a guy” too literally. When you sleep with a guy, you have intercourse with him. Apparently you didn’t anything with him (I think). Just because you were sleeping with a guy doesn’t mean what that phrase means. That phrase is a dirtier way of saying that you went to bed with a guy and did him. But really you didn’t so you can tell everyone that you didn’t. Either way, don’t try to until you are of age, you don’t wanna be lugging around a baby anyways.
Technically you did SLEEP with him, so its an appropriate phrase, it seems. However, in our society that phrase is used to say that you had sex with someone, without saying “i had sex with him”.
If you’re trying to explain to someone that you SLEPT with a boy, but didnt have sex then i would say it differently. Like i would say “I feel asleep next to him” or “we took a nap”. Not “I slept with him”, because like i said- it gives a completely different message.
Good luck