Okay well I’ve been asking a lot of questions about my love life on here, and it’s always been about this girl I met at a church camp in colorado, who is beautiful, shy, funny, and kind of nerdy and I’m also only able to see her at church, she’s goes to a different high school so at the moment i see her only once a week.
And she used to give me a few good signs recently after camp, which included asking for my number, insisting to meet my mother, always used to come up to me, inviting me places and being so happy in my presence.
Sadly things have faded since camp which was a few months ago; she hasn’t been as outgoing and fun with me like before, in fact she sometimes comes and goes without greeting me anymore. :/ She now seems awfully shy and always sits in the back row at church. Honestly I’ve been busy with school lately so I never had time to contact with her for like 2 weeks, but I was hoping we catch up on things. Practically all the signs she once gave me are gone, I just hope I’m not becoming boring or anything; her happiness isn’t as much as it used to be, and It’s quite concerning.
I just hope I didn’t wait too long, she means a lot to me and i didn’t realize this would happen. I mean, I didn’t think she be the type to date, since she’s awfully shy, and she doesn’t even have that many guy friends at school. I’m like the only guy she really knows at church and she’s the only girl i really know since I’m kinda shy as well. I talked to her recently after the church service ended on our way out, and as I explained she didn’t seem too enthusiastic as before, but she seemed average lol, and we’re planning on hanging out again soon. But I need you help!

When we do hang out, I’m planning on being more talkative, funny, and flirt more and be nice. I want to see her laugh again, and show interest again like during the good times we had, cause she means everything to me, she’s like no other girl I’ve met. I’m positive she once truly liked me but now she seems as shy as she was when I first met her. and let me explain this, I happen to know her back in 7th grade and I used to like her then too, so seeing her come to my church was miraculous for I never knew I’d see her again.
And the reason I actrually don’t really want to tell her how I feel just yet is because I don’t want to be like most highschoolers whose relationships never last, so if we were to go out, I would want to be sure that we wouldn’t have to deal with typical drama, trust issues, pressure, and crap. I was planning on asking her out sometime next year when I’m a junior but seeing how things are currently going, I’m just so confused now.
I just want to know how can I still keep her interested in me, and how I can possible spend moments with her as special as the moments we had at camp and recently after. I liked seeing her so happy in my presence, since no other girl has ever been that way with me in my entire life. Alot is going through my mind right now as you can tell lol, so please give me positive answers. thank you
Btw, sorry if I may spam this, I just really want this answered soon cause I need some help with this. :/